Saturday, August 28, 2010

Daniel

I was reading through my old posts and came across the one about Daniel B. Hyde. It reminded me of the day that Daniel came into my life, when I was giving a dog tag with his name on it. I will always remember that day, for the rest of my life. While remembering how I felt, the emotions, the tears I cried, I decided to google him again. And I found a lot of information and news articles. Even a face book page dedicated to him. Sure seems like he was a very loved young man. And proud to be in the military. Here is one of the articles I found...

From The Modesto Bee --

A young Modesto man who twice served as the student body president at Downey High and graduated from the U.S. Military Academy in West Point, N.Y., died in Iraq on Saturday
Lt. Daniel Hyde was 24. He is the first Modesto soldier killed in Iraq since 2007.

Hyde was stationed in Samarra, Iraq, his family said. He had been deployed in October as an Airborne Ranger-qualified infantry officer with the 3rd Infantry Brigade of the 25th Infantry Division.

Saturday afternoon, Hyde, a platoon leader, was killed when a rocket-propelled grenade struck his Humvee, said his father, Brian Hyde, 49. Three U.S. Army representatives visited the family's northeast Modesto home Saturday evening, his family said. Glenda Hyde, Daniel Hyde's mother, was home alone. "They knocked kind of ferociously," she said Sunday evening." I was startled and I almost didn't answer it. Then I realized: Oh, this is what happens when something happens to your kid."

The men asked Hyde if there were any family members she could call to the home for support, deflecting her questions about why they were there. But eventually they told her the news.
Hyde, 50, said she was surprised, because her son had told her the situation in Samarra was "fairly quiet."

"He always felt like he wasn't doing enough," she said.

Brian Hyde was in Sacramento at a conference when his father called him with news of Daniel's death. Someone at the conference drove him to Modesto on Saturday night. His daughter, Andrea, 21, drove to Modesto from San Francisco. Hyde said he was expecting a few family members but was surprised to find dozens of friends and family at his home. They stayed until 2 a.m. offering support, condolences and stories.

"At school he was really popular," said friend Adam Aguilera, 23, who now lives in Washington state. "He had the athletics and the intelligence, but he was just so good toward people. Some people can have all that talent and just look down on people, but I never heard him say anything bad about anybody in our class. He just had a kindness about him."

Sunday morning, Hyde's church pastor played "The Battle Hymn of the Republic" in place of the service's opening hymn and projected a photograph of Daniel Hyde onto screens around the chancel.

Hyde played football, basketball and golf in high school, and was a member of at least two academic honor societies, maintaining a 4.20 GPA. He volunteered at Delta Blood Bank and worked at a golf course. A high school teammate shared one story about how, coming into a huddle even 30 to 40 points behind, "Daniel would say, 'We can still get back into it!' " Brian Hyde said. "He was never a 'give up' type."

Frank Bispo was head football coach at Downey for 10 years. He coached Hyde, a quarterback, for two of those years. "You don't coach too many kids like him. He was a good athlete, a good student, a good person. He had it all," Bispo said. "I have four daughters and there's very few young men I would want to marry them. But he's that kind of man." Bispo said Sunday he had received many calls from former players wanting to know if the rumors of Hyde's death were true.

"He was a leader and it just goes with the territory that he had teammates that really cared about him," Bispo said. "He never had a bad moment, even through competition. He never displayed any kind of negative attribute ever."

He graduated from Downey in 2003 and West Point in 2007.

In 2002, Daniel Hyde was featured in The Bee's Teen Hall of Fame.

He was believed to be Downey's first two-term student body president. He said his parents were his biggest influence; that his biggest dislike was people who were undisciplined; and that his advice to kids was "not to accept mediocrity in any aspect of your life."

"I just have a desire to be a leader," Hyde told The Bee. "I really couldn't stand it to watch someone else do the job. It's hard for me not to be the one person people ask for help and depend on."


--The Modesto Bee






It is amazing how someone you have never meet can affect your life. I will always remember that day. Thank you Daniel for paying the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. You will forever be in my heart and prayers. Will you please keep an eye out for all those other men and woman who risk their life every day? Keep them safe.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Exciting...

No, I am sorry to report that we are not pregnant...not yet. But I did set up a time to take the placement test at Skagit Valley Community College. I haven't opened a text book in over 10 years. So yes, I am a little worried about how I will do.

Wednesday is the day. After work.

Cross your fingers I do ok :O)

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Anniversary pictures

On our 3rd anniversary we spent the night getting our picture taken by an amazing photographer. Jennifer Ecker. Her website http://jennifereckerphoto.wordpress.com/ check her out, we loved her! We had a lot of fun in downtown Mount Vernon and a little park just up the road. Here are some of them...







I love them all! We had so much fun and we have proof :O)

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

3 years ago today

3 years ago today I woke up at 6 am know that that day was going to be the first day of the rest of my life.

3 years ago today I met Ami at the City parking lot before going into Spokane.

3 years ago today it took more then 3 hours to get my hair done.

3 years ago today Ami and I ran through Old Navy looking for a larger size flip flop for Lennee with the veil in my hair.

3 years ago today Ami asked a random lady if we could go first to check out at Old Navy because "she is getting married today"

3 years ago today I meet all the girls and the parents at the boat on the boardwalk to help decorate with pink and blue streamers. Thanks Chris for helping :O)

3 years ago today there were way to many of us in my mom's Mercedes driving to the lake.

3 years ago today Jake and all his boys were playing on the lake while Ami and I ran around like chicken with our heads cut off.

3 years ago today Jon tipped the kayak over and went swimming.

3 years ago today Noah kept trying to give Jake his basketball shoes and didn't want him to put on the shiny shoes to go with his tux.

3 years ago today I realized the security tag was still on my strapless bra when I went to put it on.

3 years ago today I never got nervous. Even when the boat with our guests rounded the point.

3 years ago today my brother Stephen and Steve Mack traded tux pants right before they had to go down to the beach. I guess someone measured incorrectly.

3 years ago today I could not wait to walk down the steps with my father and have him give me away.

3 years ago today my cousin Ryan played the most beautiful music as my dad and I walked towards my future husband.

3 years ago today I had to keep telling my dad to lower my dress and we walked down the steps. He kept raising it up as we walked.

3 years ago today my dad stepped on the back of my dress on his way to his seat.

3 years ago today Merle married Jake and I on the beach.

3 years ago today Jake and I got married at my parents house on lake Coeur d'Alene.

3 years ago today my brother Stephen drove Jake and I away after the ceremony in the Crafty Lady, the families wood boat.

3 years ago today we had a blast with all our friends and family at our reception on the cruse boat.

3 years ago today Jake and I danced to "Find Yourself" by Brad Paisley for our first dance.

3 years ago today we danced to Ryan and his band playing great music.

3 years ago today I had a random drunk guy hug me on the Coeur d'Alene boardwalk after we got off the boat.

3 years ago today Mike, our photographer, got some great pictures of us, the wedding party, family and friends on the boardwalk despite the fact it was so dark.

3 years ago today Jake went to get our bags while I went to the Shore Lounge with friends...still in my wedding dress...to dance :O)

3 years ago today Jake and I ate at Carl's Jr on our way to the hotel by the air port.

3 years ago today Jake and I made love as a married couple for the first time.

3 years ago today I started my new life and Mrs. Martyn.

Monday, August 9, 2010

University High School Class of 2000

Oh my, how time flies. I can't believe it has been more then 10 years since I graduated from high school. 10 years. But man does it make you look back on the past 10 years and those 3 years spent in high school.


The friends. And boyfriends. The drama. And the rumors. The gymnastics shirts you are sure you paid for and now you can't remember. First kisses and breakups. The fights with parents, friends, and boyfriends. And that's not counting the school work. Getting good grades. Oh, and yes, going to high school where your mother works. Turning 18. And then 21. Growing up.

In looking back over the past 13 years or so I find myself wondering where time went. It really doesn't seem like we graduated over 10 years ago. And what do I have to show for it...? I'm working at a bank in an entry level position and I'm not really excited to say that. I thought by now I would have a career, not just a pay check. I thought I would have something I really liked to do. I thought I would be higher then entry level. So, what am I going to do about it? That's the big question in the Martyn household right now. A question I hope to figure out soon.

But other then employment I am very happy with my life. I have a great husband. A house. Two sometimes annoying but loving cats. I do have a job, even if its just a paycheck. We have almost everything we want. And I get to see my family all the time. I would say we have a pretty good life here in Burlington.

I was afraid that everyone would brag about what they had, what they did, how famous they were, and so on at the reunion. But no one really did. It was really good to see everyone. I am amazed at how many people I didn't really know in high school that are now some of my closest friends...thank you facebook.


We went to a dive bar on Friday, cruised Lake Coeur d'Alene on Saturday, and hung out with some good friends that night. It was like our own little reunion. We even had a BIG bug try to join our conversation twice. Thank goodness Kellie was there to save it :O) But it was good to just sit around and talk about high school and beyond. It was good to remember those classes that we loved, and the ones that we hated.


I am very thankful we were able to get together Saturday night.
It was by far the best part of the weekend.
I look forward to seeing everyone again soon.
I don't want to wait another 10 years.